It’s possible that we mess things up because we met someone at the wrong time. You could have loved them with your entire being… you may have already planned your whole future with them in it. But one day, you wake up and realize that you two are not ready to be together forever. There’s something, an invisible wall, an unspoken feeling… something that gets in the way of feeling sure of being with this person. You two grow distant, no matter how closely you hold them. You need attention, but they need space. You want to do things with them, but they want to do things on their own. You want to grow as a couple, but they want to grow independently.
Maybe you fell in love with someone that didn’t love you back. Maybe the person you love doesn’t love you in the same way. Maybe you’ve come to realize “this isn’t my forever person”.
Sometimes, no matter how much you love someone they may never provide the love and effort you need or deserve. There are people that only come into your life to teach you lessons and help you grow as a person, and that’s okay.
Perhaps you simply met at the wrong time in your lives. Or maybe that just means they weren’t the right one to begin with, as much as you wanted them to be.
From Maylea 